I would like to tell to every person who actually reads this, that you never should be ashamed to be yourself. Please don't let discriminating comments get to you, because it's just a sign of ignorance and stupidity.

Beauty isn't defined by what society dictates. Beauty is more than just that! Being who you are is beautiful in itself. Changing it just for the sake of approval is the saddest act you can do.

Don't diet, gain weight or do any plastic surgery if it's only to look beautiful for people who don't even care about you. They won't like you more for it, they'll always find something to criticize.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, everybody has his/her own taste, and that taste shouldn't be changed because others don't approve of it. Why should it? As long as you don't harm anyone, you should think/act the way you want! But please don't push your taste on others!

I do not have that much self esteem either, but I would never change how I thought or looked just so I would be approved of someone. If I want to change the way I look, it will be for myself. I once made that error when I was 15, and I'll never do it again, because it didn't get me far, it just brought shame on me.

Oh and a last thing I want to talk about: The health issue. Your health is *your* business. Why do people interfere with it? As long as you don't risk others health, why should it be of your concern?

It's a mask that people like to wear, because they are afraid to tell their true feelings, certainly about someones weight. It's not like they care if it's unhealthy to be too fat or too skinny, they only care about the way you look and express it like they "care" about you.

They even criticize someone who is just 5 pounds overweight/underweight, telling that their unhealthy, while it's totally obviously not true!

And don't let me start about the stereotyping...

But ok, the main point I want to tell is: Don't try to push "your" opinion/taste on someone else. Got it?

(Sorry if the grammar or spelling is totally hilariously wrong, English isn't my main language. So excuse me, will you.)


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I have so many people to thank on DA, so instead off going through thousands of accounts, which would take hours and hours... and as the lazy girl I am, I would rather avoid doing that, so I'm going to put it here:

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

Anybody who I fav'd, watched or did the same for me. It all means so much to me, believe it or not. I never had so much inspiration by looking at all that great art around here, every piece unique and creative like no other.

If I don't comment or reply, it's really not because I don't appreciate it, I just am a very socially phobic person, even through Internet >_< but I'm trying now, honestly... and it's a big step, believe me. (I'm a big wuss, I'm always afraid of peoples reactions and such.)

This rant aside: THANK YOU AGAIN!